• Interests, Hobbies, Geekdom,  Ramblings

    It Will Never Be Perfect

    I was reading this book about running. I hardly have any time nowadays to read, so when I do get the time, I want to make sure it has something to do with what I am currently interested in.

    The author mentioned that there will never be a perfect time to run. There will always be something that prevents from having a perfect run, be it the weather, a muscle ache etc, but what runners do is to just take everything in their stride, and run. It is this ‘can do’ approach to running which runners should also apply it to their life.

    It’s true. After running for more than a year and half, there is always something that gets in the way of a perfect run. If it is not hot, then perhaps there is rain. If there is no rain, then perhaps I have not recover sufficiently from the run yesterday, or if I did, then perhaps the calf muscles are still aching. If I was to find an excuse not to run, I will have the whole book as thick as the dictionary to choose from.

    It is the same with life. There will never be a good or perfect time to do anything. If I am forever waiting for the perfect moment to do something, I will most probably end up doing nothing. I will just have to know what is lacking, what is bad, find workarounds and just go ahead and do it.

    Learning life lessons from running. Another benefits of running.

  • Ramblings

    From Another Angle

    Today is one of those days that when I viewed it from another angle, I realised things that I was stressed out about were actually irrelevant. There is absolutely no need for me to be helpful as it was not my problem. I just need to voice what I think and not offer any solution because it is not my problem.

    Sometimes life is so much easier when viewing it from another angle.

  • Ramblings

    80’s Songs

    I think the reason why I love the songs from the 80’s is due to the fact that period had some of the happiest days of my life. The innocence, the youth, the eagerness, embracing everything life has to offer.

    Or maybe this is the mid life crisis me speaking.

  • Ramblings

    When Did Our Dreams Died?

    Alphaville – Forever Young

     

    This song was like the unofficial anthem of my friends and I when we were much younger. The lyrics will so appropriate at that time:

    It’s so hard to get old without a cause
    I don’t want to perish like a fading horse
    Youth is like diamonds in the sun
    And diamonds are forever
    So many adventures couldn’t happen today
    So many songs we forgot to play
    So many dreams are swinging out of the blue
    We let them come true

    We were young, carefree, naïve, innocent, and most importantly, we all had dreams.

    When did our dreams died? When did the reality of life sink in?

    When did my dreams died? I don’t remember.

  • Ramblings,  Words of Wisdom

    Stop dreaming. Start living.

    Life-of-Walter-Mitty-Teaser-Poster-Cinemas

    Every once in a while, something comes along to remind me about life. The Secret Life of Walter Mitty is one of these.

    It was a beautiful movie, simple and cleanly done.  Like Sean Penn said in the movie, ‘Beautiful things don’t ask for attention.’, sometimes simplicity in a movie has its own beauty. There is no need for loud and fast action, violence, sex, gore and scares to entertain.

    Thanks, Ben Stiller. Thanks for reminding me, ‘Stop dreaming. Start living.’

  • Ramblings

    Reflections 2013

    This year’s reflections is slightly different from last few years (2010, 2011 and 2012) in that I am actually writing this on the first day of 2014 instead of the last day of 2013.

    Much happened in 2013. After leaving my previous job in June 2012 and joining my current company, much has happened with this job. I was given more projects and more responsibilities. It was not easy, since the new projects were given to me because the person who was handling these projects previously were asked to leave due to non-performance. I had to prove to everyone that I can handle them, and much time was spent repairing the broken relationship between the clients and company. The projects were also in a mess, and the two to three months spent trying to stabilising the projects were some of the most intense months ever. The results were not perfect, but I believe it has reached a point where it is much better than before. Salary increment and bonuses were insignificant, but I take comfort in the fact that at least there is salary increment and bonus. I am uncertain about staying long in this job though, partly because the new direction taken by the company seems to place more emphasis in other countries and not in Singapore, in fact, it seems the Singapore office is redundant in the overall plan. Also, I am getting ambitious, I do want to climb higher up the ladder, and the opportunities here seems limited. I believe in the new year, things will be clearer, especially with some new senior management coming in. In the meantime, I am always on the constant lookout for new opportunities.

    Much has happened personally too. One of the resolution made in 2013 was a resounding success. I have been exercising regularly for the whole year, losing 15kg in the process, and getting healthier in the process. Eating clean and running regularly are working wonders for both the mind and body, and it has come to a point that I am feeling lethargic when I stop running due to injuries or weather. I also took part in races, completing my first half marathon in the SAFRA Bay Run, followed by my first 10km run in the Yellow Prison Run, and finally another half marathon in the Standard Chartered Singapore Marathon. For the new year, I want to be really serious about this whole running thing, to train seriously so as to improve my half marathon timing to 2hrs 30mins, and perhaps even run an overseas race, with the Perth City to Surf race in August or the Gold Coast Airport Marathon in July most likely. I will also want to continue to eat cleanly, and to stay healthy. The long term goal is to complete my first full marathon, and hopefully this can be accomplished in 2015.

    Financially, I managed to put in place some kind of plan, though I only started on the plan in the first quarter of the year. I am not exactly happy with where it is going, mainly because I am still learning, and mistakes were made. There were also a few times, much more than what I would have liked, where I gave in to temptation and made a few unnecessary purchases. Savings have increased, and in a better state than 2012 though. For the new year, I want to be more disciplined, and I want to increase my liquidity mainly by putting most of my savings in cash or cash equivalent instruments. I foresee in the coming few years, there will be quite a few big amount purchases which will require a substantial outlay, with a new car being one since my current car will be 10 years old in 3 years time. I want to increase my savings for 2014 by 25% more than the amount I saved in 2013, quite a stretch, but I am determined to meet this goal.

    The other 2013 resolutions made were not really working out. Firstly I have given up on the certification one, mainly because there is just not enough time left to actively pursue it, especially since there are other more important priorities. So the self growth part will be drop altogether for 2014. Instead this will be replaced by something simpler, to learn something new each day. I also really want to read more books, and the target 50 new books in the new year will still apply. I will also try to start on the charity bit, starting with something small and easy to accomplish, perhaps regular monetary contributions to WWF. I did two vacations overseas in 2013, and while they were really enjoyable, they were to countries and cities that I have visited before. Also, I was not really watching the costs. For the new year, more vacations overseas, to countries and cities not visited before, and to watch the costs of these vacations.

    I have decided to have a new resolution for 2014 as a result of significant event in 2013, and that is to love more, to care more, to pamper more, and to spoil more.

    2012 was the year that I survived and taken baby steps. 2013 was the year that I could finally stand up straight and walk, perhaps finally able to visualise the light at the end of the tunnel. And most importantly, there were times that I even smiled.

  • Ramblings

    Today

    What I did today in 2008, 2010, 2011 and 2012.

    1) Woke up and checked out from Margaret Forest.

    2) Wanted to go to the Berry Farm for breakfast, but found out they are only opened at 10am.

    3) Drove back to have breakfast at Margaret Bakery for the second time.

    4) Walk around the town till the shop which was selling some nice tote bags opened for business.

    5) Drove towards Denmark.

    6) Had lunch at Lavender and Berry Farm. Wonderful place, wondered why the owners wanted to sell it.

    7) Drop by Bartholemews Meadery to buy a bottle of honey and mead.

    8) Finally reached Sensational Heights and checked in. What a place. What views.

    9) Drove to Denmark town to buy some food from IGA.

    10) Had roast chicken and a bottle of Margaret River Xanadu Shiraz outside the room enjoying the views and sunset.

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    Most importantly, I am no longer alone today.

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    A Little Reminder

    It was pouring as we ended the meeting in Jakarta. Our local partner, after talking to the driver on the mobile, advised us to walk over to the next building instead of getting the driver to come over due to the deadlock traffic jam.

    There were a bunch of young kids waiting at the building. Our local partner talked to two kids, and immediately they opened two umbrellas. Using the two umbrellas, we proceed to walk over to the next building.

    The two kids followed beside us, thoroughly soaked by the rain, and walking bare footed along the poorly maintained roads, walking through the muddy filled potholes and trash.

    When we reached the building opposite, our local partner paid them, equivalent to a few cents in Singapore currency, before the two kids ran back with the umbrellas, presumably to await for more business.

    It is these little incidents that remind me how fortunate I am.